Holden, C. J. I had written up a parenting plan and we went and had it notarized the same day after dismissing the case. He was never home. Dear God, i am so sorry you are going through this. Judge Boyd and Mediator Dan Chester. There is nothing I can do. Now we are left looking like child molesters (the way they wrote up our protection order for all to see including juvenile names). Yet him and I seem to be in court every other month because he wants more money. The accuser will get everything they ask for without ever meeting a burden of proof. no, youre addressing your childs fear. I have a very over the top psycho for an ex. I am in NJ and been in a mess for a year. I’m devastated without my precious children. Despite his efforts in shaving all his hair off his body. Well we start becoming very distant from each no affection as matter of fact nothing but insults towards each other and darn it I hate my self for all the negative things I said to her! I need to know if this is a case I need a lawyer for false allegations I’m the victim my husband stab me with a knife I call the police he leave gointget our son police stop him take hi to jail police drive his car hoe park it Tak my son to cps when they could of brought him to me sent e to hospital Putin police report boths parents been arrested didn’t give my husband no DUI child endangerment didn’t tow his car nothin an my son is still out the home never seen the stabbing or nothin. 6 months following the accident, I received 3 restraining orders (2 false) and a Declaration that was absolute fabrication. This is about $ and the court, the Child Rep especially donât care. I am a mandated reporter because I did the right thing my daughter hates me and is punishing me for it. Five Years Your best chance is hiring a lawyer. I’m afraid first and foremost the emotional damage (god forbid) all this may or is causing that precious angel. Lost hip to bone cancer. When I took diapers there on several occasions with a witness and food she even gave me back three bags of clothes and two with baby food she said she didn’t need. False allegations. Please help me. Still I’m very concerned and want her exposed for her treachery but most important simply my daughter. Dyfs is involved doing an investigation. Finally judge orders supervised visits. So since my ex lost our 16-year-old he decided it would be great if moved my 10-year-old to another state. I’m terrified if she gets a bump or scrape, etc. There is a grandmother that got custody of their granddaughter and the granddaughter is not living with them and she claimed them on their taxes to . I don’t know what I did to this woman, but I don’t know why I didn’t see the signs, I don’t know when she started doing whatever drugs she’s on, but I don’t do drugs, I’ve requested multiple times that CPS do a drug screen on me, as I am the only person that will pass with flying colors. Grounded in practice and arising out of the unique Prairie context, this book offers both information and inspiration for policy makers, practitioners, researchers, and students interested in child and family services. I still have my court paper work, i just don’t want this to happen again! Watch me with my kid and cameras everywhere. My son is in the middle of a divorce weâre his wife and her family lied and filed a domestic abuse against the children. }, August 31, 2015 371 Comments Categories: Children and Divorce, Children's and Parenting Issues after DivorceTags: Child Custody, Divorce, Divorce Litigation, Domestic Violence. He had come into my life with not one personal belonging and a rundown old truck but I loved him anyway, it wasn’t about money or what you had to me it was making s future together! Fast forward and my ex husband now wants full custody of my son we went to court he had the step daughter lie on the stand. I don’t want the kids to live with me because i have a feeling my wife will plan something else. I was appalled to hear how many stories are so similar to my own that I couldn’t help but to finish the night into the morning to post something on the site and plead for some kind of advice or help and ask How Judges could take away children from good mothers!! I have retained a Lawyer and I have dozens of witnesses that will testify if needed to the very fact I worshipped my sons and spoiled both equally and loved doing so I never even spanked my 2 boys I would rather hug them! Institutional racism, also known as systemic racism, is a term that refers to a form of racism that is embedded in the laws and regulations of a society or an organization. My daughter has attempted suicidal 3 times while at her dads Bc Dhs put her there. My 8 yr old son is now living with his drug addicted dad and his dad girlfriend who lost her own 3 children in 2013 due to living with a sex offender, leaving her young kids with him, force feeding her younger daughter and doing IV drugs as well as snorting drugs. It was like something someone would right on their deathbed. I’m looking into any and all help he can get but everyone has already judged. I just can’t believe this happened to me. The following week, her mother (the grandmother) took pills from my husband and called family services that he was selling drugs. I am watching my son go through a lot of adult feelings. And after week two there has been absolutely noone telling me what I need to do to prove my self to be the loving caring mother I have always been…classes… parenting classes nothing. Please email me and let me know. False charges have been used to deny phone visitation for six months. Barely speak on the phone because he listens. I was a Mother and now I am nobody. Found inside – Page 321The validity of surrender by Transfer of Guardianship has been upheld by the Alberta Court of Appeal . ... the child is provided maximum security and the Child Welfare Branch is in the proper position to proceed with legal adoption . I’m in the same boat.I’m a mother with a broken heart.my x partner took my 7 year old daughter 11th April 2917.he’s coming out with allegations every time were in court.I have a fulltime job pay maintanance.he’s a bully mentally grooming our daughter. Sheâs lies about everything and now itâs a year she doesnât let see his son. I LOVED HIM so much I did whatever he asked of me… Incuding having a baby that I was NOT ready for and FORCED to become pregnant with as they KNEW I am FULLY AGAINST ABORTION…. But but what can be done when a Husband who is good at hiding his alcohol and drug abuse as well as being very good at manipulation and emotional abuse? Even if my relationship could be rectified with my daughter, itâll never be the same as I lost all trust in her especially with her faking this close bond with me even up until the night before she left. In the name of Jesus.. Pls help, Legal Aid can help if you qualify. When they didnât even want her they hid me the whole time I was pregnant at 15 he was 20 my family didnât know I had a baby his parents would make me hide when my family would come to there house looking for me they made me get imancpipated so I could legally give my baby away to her adoptive parents while in the hospital they changed my last name to Jenna novus and baby novus I got her back I went and told my sister and if we didnât get her back within a hour and a half it would have been finalized then his parents told me to oâclock my things I wasnât welcome there again and these people have my daughter they made up a bunch of lies and got full custody of her I havenât talked to her nor seen her in 4 years this isnât right Iâm so broken. Take A Sneak Peak At The Movies Coming Out This Week (8/12) New Movie Releases This Weekend: December 10-12; A Very HollyGOOD Christmas Playlist Then they wanted me to go see her paying 50 bucks a hour supervised visits which is insane they acted like I did a serious crime to my daughter. I have no recourse. His father has abused the system, lied, and got away with it. I was arrested 10 hours after our argument by 6 officers with guns drawn on me like I am some kind of threat. Ever since my husband was awarded full custody of his child due to mom and stepdad physically abusing my stepchild where cops and ambulance were called by a neighbor, My husbands ex and her spouse for the past 5 years have continuously called child protection services with false accusations about me, my husband, and my own biological children and itâs stressful. Happiness is a choice and why choose anything but!? So exactly how many, in your opinion, are false? Involvement of all or some of these experts and agencies sometimes creates even bigger issues and often times further variables with which to deal— all in a case where the allegations are false. That’s completely up to you. I have a job that requires that I have a clean criminal record, and if this allegation goes anywhere, I can lose my job, be arrested, and be unemployable by most parts of my state. And still no children? I am a victim of one. I havenât seen or talked to her on the phone in five years! Oh yeah, at one hearing why was nothing addressed as he literally bragged about making false allegations on me and how he learned how to do it. Every few month she would send a few pictures of the baby to torment me but claim it is her way of keeping me in contact with the bay. I had just gotten out of a major truck accident and was in a wheel chair. I pray this message reaches you well. Outside of blatant incompetence, I cannot come up with a rational explanation for this since I pay the exact same agency support for the same children TO the REAL custodial parent. He is being coached and i am so scared. But writing our legislators a representative of our state to put Stop to these type of practices. If we simply decouple child support and custody time, most of the problems mentioned in this article will be greatly reduced. And you know he probably could knowing what he was able to do before. Over and over it seems there is no end in sight, half a dozen special settings in a year. My baby was 7 and held onto my leg and begged the police not to take her to her father because he was really mean to her. It is a nightmare he is active duty military and it is involving 2 states. after a retired judge left the bench or was put there due to lack of knowledge of those voters who Voted them in… It’s time to change a system that doesn’t work… Stand for something or don’t stand for anything.. Family are being torn apart every single day and we have to Stop this from ruining the lives of many well-deserving children. My ex used to strangle and rape me during my pregnancy. I just wanted to say i i personally have been through this even though the court has found all allogations completely false the mother was awarded custody and this was 6 years ago and i still have never said anything negative but no matter what i try to do tp get visitation for my son the court still will not allow me to propose a parenting plan my Ex is severely hostile towards me even going as far as attacking me infront of tribal pd and still all of the domestic violence reports towards her and her self admitting to them nothing has happened im starting to feel that because i am half native american is why they will not allow me to even say hi to my son i iave tried paying out of pocket for a lawyer but one lawyer was threatened disbarmnet if he persued the case it got so bad to where cps took a child due to the child being born in a home with no electricity from a power outage i know it sounds untruthfull but it is not.every time my ex has shown up to court she has over 50 statements against me from people i have never even heard of and all of the statement sound exact.and the man i did not want around my son is a fellon for meth manufacturing selling and just in the last 2 years went to prison for murder im im scared for my son because of her anger but if i speak out i end up having police telling me i cannot speak about anything that had happened it was so bad i i had no where to live because she would call the cops on me talk to my landlords and had people beat me up in homeless shelters i i had to leave state but the courts will not even hear me out why is it okay for her to do this why does the court state it is unjust to use tape recordings and my statements but never punish’s her for false statements im just asking because i have tried everything in my power but get nowhere this all happened in omak and spokane washington and just to add the colville tribe was not allowed to even help me. He sends no birthday cards or Christmas gifts. Only Context offers case-law language analytics that reveal experts’ challenge histories and pinpoint case passages your judge most relies on. ), Early Human Kinship. She packed herself and the kids and moved 1700 miles away. What can she do? Compared to what the studied proved. A round-up of news, community, and business briefs from sdnews.com highlighting what’s happening in our community. My ex to lost patience and kicked my sons door in when he locked himself in his room and struck him with n the back of the head causing him to flee his residence. I cannot relax and have to hold her hand all the time from falling. My girl friend begins to become a little withdrawn and she became frustrated our son does not take to breast feeding, we then begin to drift apart a little our first arguments end in kissing and making up. Courts take a minor away from mother when father has 2 convicted OWI and mother has NO record…. My ex neglected our daughter, I threaten to report his neglect to DHS. Since gaining custody of my son the 16-year-old he has since graduated high school tied up all the legal problems from his fatherâs lack of parental supervision. We had joint legal and physical custody but he has never been active in anything to do with education, medical, or any other decision making where it came to our son. My daughter is a straight A all honors student that has never gone anywhere without parent supervision past 7 pm. It is the kids who suffer and the father who wins. Child saying but daddy will be mad at me. The mom was right there and even told my son that she had him call. To Melissa Ashby, and attorney William Geary, I wrote notes in my table I was using for school. There is power in numbers, but where do we march? I was in contempt of court… I hid with my son. Ive been fighting for my kids for 11 years, I have had custody of both girls for over 8yrs and now the table turned. Even when an allegation is eventually proven false, often times years or months of litigation have occurred. I had no more money to live on, I was not getting visitation and couldn’t enforce it because I didn’t have any order to show the police. The daughter was given to us by the police and we filed for emergency custody but for some reason the judge had the case moved over and it has been almost two years of non stop dfcs police phone calls messages and then the past year my husband has not been aloud by there mother to even have a second of unsupervised, by her, conversations with the children and will hang up if they try to say something she don’t like. The judge found me in default for not providing the papers by the due date. You didn’t read this thread? Anyways a social worker comes and interviews us and the next thing you know I have a court date. Expatica is the international community’s online home away from home. My ex called cps on me told them my daughter said I touched her no no spot 3 times. I was blindsided by her I didn’t know there were people like this is sick it didnt take long to figure her out even the estate are like broken records they usually have an addiction sex , pills alcohol well when the drugs comes into play they tend to slip, well that’s when iwent to work and no it was not easyorcheap I’m the father the system is so bias it needs to be revamped dcs in AZ are criminals they tried to tell me I had to do this and that or we will take your daughter, we’ll you can say get the funky out of my house and get an education makes me sick u people are saving children damn joke if you have the court order and full custody legal medical religion deception making they leave or cops will be on there way I have an experienced lawyer like myself she likes to stand up for our rights I’m sorry for people who get screwed because no lawyer it’s wrong .., well I guess IL, see how it goes illbe sure toilet the judge know if you decided to give her time and my daughter is harmed I hold you 100percent at fault ., no threat he doesn’t need to know how bad it will be …. THAT IS HENNEPIN COUNTY FAMILY INJUSTICE. Right now there a systematic machine that has entangled itself within my family and the procedure and individuals outside of my family are only causing more harm then good Why is family right now broken? I don’t know what to do, I was never even served plus he forged my signature! In total.. six months at the age of 42 years old!! He set me up, planned ahead and waited until my mom lost her battle to cancer. My ex with held information that could of potentially hurt my daughter. Also over the years I’ve learned that the funding they get for each individual family only continues when they drag you through the mud, like when they should’ve closed the case. After a suprise announcement that she would seek divorce, and 50 days of a brutal and contrived initiative to seperate me from my children, I was able to get enough audio and video, to easily demonstrate the facts surrounding what was a unbelievable and severe departure from the person I thought I married. This enables consistent modification request filings every 2 years regardless of whether anything has changed. Crazy Iâm a good enough mother to deal with a 16-year-old with behavioral problems but not a good enough mother to take custody of a 10-year-old may I also add I got custody of my daughter which I took custody of her at 14 and raised her. I shared this with dad and her mobile response therapist. Do you have a name? I snuck out in the night and took my 7 yr old with me. If someone, anyone wanted what was best for my daughter, or anyone’s child for that matter, they would demand a parent be there, not participate in the theatrical event that began in school and/ or never remove her without informing the custodial parent. I am literally going through almost the same situations commented on in this blog..my ex husband has made so many false allegations against me with dcf drugs, I was cleared case closed, now it’s him and my mentally ill 15 year old son that made a false child sexual exploitation allegations with dcf it was unsubstantiated but turned over to bso to investigate. They take no step towards fixing this issue by educating themselves, hiring a professional that can work with their courthouse aiding with abuse and domestic violence. I took care of them when they were sick or wounded. Hundred and hundreds a hundreds of thousands. My beloved ex spouse, is a licensed mental health counselor in Spokane WA. My head is spinning. Where are the people that have such authority to change the system and see for themselves the damage being caused as these legal parenting cases flood into the CHILDS systems? Multiple studies have proven only 2% of mothers falsely accuse fathers of abuse, yet 75% of abusive fathers retain custody due to courts doubting mothers. Seriously does the baby have to either die from abuse or be close to death before the courts do what is right? I have a 9 year old too. Shortly after he had walked out on me and the children with months of debt owed for very past due bills and everything in my name because of his bad credit that I was held responsible for after the divorce was finalized! 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